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I agee that sometimes marriage does not work out. And yes the only solution is divorce. We cannot ignore that we are free and we have the rights to decide what is good for us. We are old enough to know the truth that if we cannot live with a person then its time to for us move on.

I think it does. People are married to each other in a belief that they can live happily ever after. But, there are certain question today in our minds that will we be able to sustain our married life. As seen that Divorce rates are getting higher, people have to struggle to keep their married life.

I think that the relationship is in the hand of how primarily we take our marriage. The decision to get married is very important in the first place. When we think that we are ready for all the compromise, promise, role and the duty, we are ready to go down the aisle. But if there are some sources which pull our immediate action, we must behave as soon as possible. It is not late for one to control over time. It is a hard decision but we can slowly overcome it.

They say that people change after certain years of marriage but that is not always correct. We can see so many couples who are happily married till the old age. Take an example from our own family members. My parents have been married for 22 years and I have never seen them regretting about their marriage or their partner. I have always wished for the same as in my marriage. It is hard to imagine choosing a partner for your entire life. It is hard to change a decision once if you are married. Of course divorce is a solution but there are many effects joined with it. I do not want to be unsecured that the growing rate of divorce can affect my personal decisions. It is important for us to choose the right partner. Unless, you are from a family of a culture where life partners are arranged and divorce are of the question.

I have learned that marriage is a three legged chair. If one leg of the chair is broken then the chair cannot stand up. The three important legs are intimacy, passion and the compromise. These are the few parts that play to make a marriage successful in our life. We can choose to be married only when we think that these factors exist.

People marry for love but today there are many reasons why a person can get married. Some marry to acquire fortunes. Some marry to keep the name of family whether it is a friend, relative or a stranger. It is not practical when we hear people doing these actions but the limitations and restrictions are what we seem to neglect. Due to free choice and will, we seem to care less about the side effects of a divorce. So, if we do not respect values of true meaning of marriage, it is difficult to feel the actual response.

We can easily get married and if our partner does not have what it takes to be a good husband/wife, the only way out is divorce or sad fights. We can be married and keep it the way we want it, only if we maintain the true roles of a partner. That way I can have the three legged chair relationship with my life partner.

I just came back from the Marshall6 watching the movie “2012”. It was a good movie but not as i expected it to be. After coming back I was so scared and started searching more videos on the Youtube about it. I watched so many videos and all the videos have their own predictions. Its hard  to believe them but the funny part is that all the predictions come to end up on one day that is December 21, 2012. Its 3 years from now. I think people will forget about it when time passes.

I have so many questions about it. I ask people around me if they believe in it. I guess its just a prediction which had so many facts that its slowly turning into a nightmare. But, I am a believer and I believe that it will not be an end of human civilization. I guess when time comes everyone has to die one or the other day.

Everyone knows that halloween is coming near. I had this amazingly freaking experience last friday. We had this trip to Duluth for two days. We had so many places to go in such a short time and there we had this visit to Glensheen Mansion. It is an estate that was owned by chester A. Congdon. It was built in 1908 near to the great lake Superior and the house consists of 36 rooms. It was amazing to see how much technology was  being used in the house that was built a hundred years ago.

The shower with 17 heads, the sink that would prevent in breaking the china clays, the ceilings made of gold, furniture that was designed in France, paintings from the Japan, buttons on the shower that would send a electrical bars in the kitchen to the housemaids and the fine dining hall which had all the lights made of silver was amzing to know how Chester Congdon made the house so beautiful. He had six childrens three boys and three girls. The house is currently a Minnesota’s premier historic house museum. It was handed by one of the daughter of Chester to University of Minnesota Duluth. It is haunted because it is known to have the spirits of the eldest daughter of Chester who was Elizabeth and her house maid. They were killed years ago but the mystery is that no one knows who murdered them. It was spooky and had a weird feeling to go around the house.

How often do you play video games? Do you think they are good for entertainment or waste of time ? We just had a huge discussion about the issue yesterday in our Sociology class. Most of them thought that it was good only few said that it is not waste of time which makes people to be psychologically involved.

Few years back I got this game from my younger brother called Call Of Duty. I played it for half an hour at the beginning but then I gradually started playing more than 3 or 4 hours. It was so much fun. I noticed that every time i was near the game I just could not stop playing.I guess that depends upon our selvesof how we can or not control it.

They showed us a video in which a retired army talks about how they trained their armies by actually playing the video games. I guess it is bad for the childrens to learn what the people use them in actual life. Children learn everything and they cannot make difference in the fantacies and realities. Right now, I have neighbours and they are mostly guys. They play the game everytime they are together.

It is true that I had a cousin who was seven years old. He played the game every two hours a day. It is weird but one time he jumped from his room’s window directly a floor down and broke his arms and his legs. When we asked him he said that he actually thought that he could land like a superman. It is stupid but he is justa kid.

It was a great day for President Obama that he was chosen to receive the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize. “The Norwegian Nobel committee has chosen President Obama for the Nobel Peace Price for all the extraordinary effort for the international Diplomacy and cooperation between the people” www.cnn.com Friday october 9, 2009.

Obama acheived this success in a short period of being President of United states. He mentioned that the decision for the award was not for his accomplishments but a start of action. He had accomplished so much but so much is still to be done to achieve his goal of eliminating all the Global problems to ensure a secured future. Its a great news for President Obama and for America.

A successful victory for a hard working person whose words tremble for the optimist future of human race. It is a sign for more successful furture for President Obama and his accomplishments.

Its really easy if you are certainly bored„or if u have someone to cook n try new dish. This is one of the famous dish in India and Nepal. Experiment how cook are yoo. I make this dish every once in month but its always a great food for me .It goes with rice and some Indian Mango Pickle.

I cook it everytime i am sitting home doing nothing. Last time i tried cooking chinese noodles but it tasted so weird that i laughed the whole night with my boyfriend. He is a total health consious and I am a fan of sweet, sour, and hot foods. We discussed what ingredient to mess up and ended up with the most disgusting food i ever made.

It is a total fun for me. I share this to you because I think that when you get older your taste for food dissapears. Just I try doing new things when i am bored.

I know i sound like an advertisement on a TV but try making this dish and rejuvinate yourself with someone you care about the most who can be your girlfriend, boyfriend, friends, family or anyone.

This is the website of the Chicken curry that I make.http://www.nepalhomepage.com/society/recipes/c-tarkari.html…ENJOY “__”

i won this”bart” in valley fair and almost certainly fainted playing the ” Wild Thing.”“…sad I could not take any picture though….

I want to write something that interests me but what I do not know what pulls me. but i saw a video that my friend posted in facebook. After i saw that video i could not hold my tears. I was fell so down and felt that life was so mean. I now have some point that i want to write about world’s poverty and war that strikes the children of that nation. Last time i saw the videos i fell apart. I thought that life to many has no value. Hundreds of children dying,their bodies are buried in the land with half of the body laying outside is a terrible scene to watch.

     If you ask questions there are no answers rather only fierce actions that take lives of innocenrt people and children take place. I have no intention in Politics or any of the resources but just watching those videos makes me ask those silly questions. “WHY?WHY THOSE INNOCENTS CHILDREN?” .Millions of children homeless without food and shelter, many without family have no where to go but to ask questions and cry.

I can never imagine a world without my family or a place called home. I look those pictures and all i can do cry and feel terrible. As i am growing older it makes me like the news, pictures, videos are part of our life. How stupid of me?? How could i be so selfish?? If anyone reads this just think why is this happening??

You can think for a while and have many answer but it they just dissapear. I think it is the main reason that people have stopped taking any actions towards it and  the dark world is now dissapeared from our eyes. So, i think holding my tears an start thinking how it can be stopped.

LOVE TO BE IN LOVE…ITS JUST LOVAEBLE THAT I HAVE SOMEONE TO LOVE….